In a talk at the Mindfulness & Education Conference at Omega Institute in 2013, Lama Dawa Tarchin Phillips asked the audience how many of them do what they do to create a better future for our kids. About a third of the group raised their hand, which he said is about average.
He explained that from a Buddhist perspective, the challenge of imagining a better future is that you will accept collateral damage along the way.
Sometimes the collateral damage will involve others, but often it involves you.
In order to get to this mythical future where everything is better, you become willing to accept things that are harmful to you, like overworking and excessive stress, and you ignore the relationship with the one person you’re really here to take care of—you.
Interesting. I hadn’t thought of it that way before.